Positive Discipline Guidelines
From the book Positive Discipline
by Jane Nelsen
1. Misbehaving children are “discouraged children” who have mistaken ideas on how to achieve their primary goal—to belong. Their mistaken ideas lead them to misbehavior. We cannot be effective unless we address the mistaken beliefs rather than just the misbehavior.
 
2. Use encouragement to help children feel “belonging” [...]